Divine Union

The Sacred Key to Our Humanity

Every Monday, I focus on my inner Superhero—honing my superpowers, defining my mission, and aligning with my purpose. Tuesdays, I shift the lens outward, exploring how that empowered self integrates with another.

Throughout my life, I’ve explored relationships and sexuality in depth, gaining clarity on what I want and the kind of partnership in which I truly thrive. Every experience has served a purpose, shaping my understanding of connection and self. I still feel called to write and teach about this journey while the passion is alive. But in this season of my life, I recognize that what I seek most is a Divine Union—a partnership where energies align, overflow, and elevate one another.

Divine Union is a sacred connection between two souls that transcends the physical and taps into a higher purpose. It’s a relationship—whether romantic, platonic, or even within oneself—that serves as a mirror for personal growth, healing, and spiritual evolution.

A true Divine Union isn’t just about passion or compatibility; it’s about two energies coming together to create something greater—whether that’s a deep understanding, a shared mission, or an expansion of consciousness. It’s not always easy, because true Divine Unions reflect our deepest wounds as much as our highest potential, pushing us to evolve.

In the context of Tantra, it’s about merging energies—Shiva and Shakti, yin and yang, the divine masculine and feminine—honoring both individuality and unity. It’s a dance between surrender and strength, giving and receiving, where both partners are fully seen and accepted.

As I began writing this post, I searched for a video discussing the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine. The one below was among the first to appear, and it deeply resonates with my own school of thought.

Unity Consciousness

Yesterday, I referenced the Catholic sacraments; today, I’ll explore the Divine Masculine and Feminine and how their union creates Christ Consciousness. I want to make it clear that I’m not pushing any religious agenda. While I was raised Catholic, my spiritual journey has led me to dissolve my ties with the church—yet I’ve held onto the values and lessons that still resonate with me today.

Growing up, attending church and reciting prayers never truly made sense to me. But as I’ve matured and shaped my own authentic spirituality, I’ve found new depth and meaning in some of those prayers and teachings. Spirituality, to me, is about integration—taking what aligns with my soul and letting go of what does not.

My spiritual journey truly began when I started to approach psychedelics as sacred ceremonies rather than just another way to party. At the time, I was immersed in studying philosophy, history, and environmental studies, and my curiosity about consciousness was expanding.

One night, we decided to take what Terence McKenna called a "shamanic dose" of mushrooms. And let me tell you—it definitely took me to another dimension.

To give you the short version: at some point, I started to trance out so deeply that I found myself reaching out to the plants around me... and they started to talk back. Not even in english, in some plant language that I was somehow understanding! I know it sounds crazy, but in that moment, it was as real as anything. As I held onto one plant, my entire life began flashing before my eyes—my partner, my family, my friends, school, parties, books, even the characters in Smallville. Then came the darker visions—war, guns, violence, famine. Fear crept in. But just as panic was about to take hold, the plants comforted me. They told me not to be afraid. That everything—light and dark—is part of the same plan.

This went on for a while, until I suddenly became aware of my body again. My hand still grasped the plant, one foot was in the soil, the other in a bucket of water, and my free hand stretched toward the sky as I yelled, "We're all together now, babies! We're all together now!"

Now, no need to worry—I sadly don’t hear plants talk anymore. That was a special kind of trip. But the experience was so profound that it has stayed with me all these years. In that moment, I didn’t just understand—we are all one—I felt it. And ever since, I’ve been moving through life with that truth at my core.

It’s clear that the world is out of balance, and through my spiritual awakening, I’ve come to understand that this imbalance correlates with the disharmony between the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine. This has less to do with sexual orientation or an individual's assigned gender and more with the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine energies that exist within each of us. The goal is to find a partner who helps balance these forces, creating a harmonious relationship where both energies can flourish. This is the foundation for a Divine Union.

Together, the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine create a harmonious balance—complementing and supporting each other. When these energies unite within an individual or in a relationship, it fosters a sense of completeness, where both action and receptivity, strength and compassion work in alignment to create something greater than the sum of its parts.

Divine Masculine:

The Divine Masculine represents qualities of strength, structure, action, and leadership. It embodies the energy of creation and protection, of vision and direction. This energy is about clarity, focus, assertiveness, and providing stability. It’s associated with the logical, rational, and outward expression of power—whether in work, relationships, or life purpose. When in balance, the Divine Masculine is compassionate, respectful, and strong without being overpowering.

Divine Feminine:

The Divine Feminine represents the nurturing, intuitive, receptive, and creative energy. It embodies qualities of empathy, compassion, emotional depth, and connection. The Divine Feminine is deeply attuned to the flow of life, embracing change and transformation with grace. This energy is about creation, intuition, and the ability to nurture, whether it’s ideas, people, or situations. When in balance, the Divine Feminine is soft but powerful, wise yet open, and loving without being passive.

The book, Creating Opulence, dives deeper to assist readers in assessing whether they are balanced in the Divine Masculine and Feminine, and in identifying the type of partner that will aid them in forming a Divine Union.

The Divine Union: Creating Christ Consciousness

At its core, Christ Consciousness represents a state of heightened awareness—of unconditional love, unity, and the profound understanding that we are all interconnected. It is the essence of divinity expressed in human form, transcending duality and reaching the higher realms of consciousness where love, peace, and truth flow freely.

When the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine unite within an individual or in a relationship, they create the perfect balance of forces that give rise to Christ Consciousness. This union is not about physical or gender-based distinctions, but rather about harmonizing the energies of creation, action, intuition, and receptivity that exist within all of us.

The Importance of Divine Union

As I mentioned, and without going into too much detail, I have dabbled and experimented with every type of relationship known to modern culture. I have also been around long enough to see how hook-up culture has grown and affected the younger generations. Now I am not here to judge, I'm in no position to judge - I think it's healthy for young people to explore and see what's out there as long as they are safe and not hurting anyone. But through all my experiences, I’ve come to realize that there’s something deeper, something more transformative than fleeting connections.

I believe that every person that you're with leaves an imprint on you - they imprint what they feel about you, and you also imprint your thoughts about them onto them. When you're with a partner that you absolutely love and adore, you tend to reflect all that you love about them, and when you make love, that reflection is what you're imprinting in their soul so that their positive qualities gets pulled out even more. I find that when I'm equally attracted to the person that I'm with, our foreplay is so intense, and through our pulling and pushing and playfulness, we pull more of our magnetic energy out of each other; it then gets solidified through penetration.

Couples deeply in love, still basking in that honeymoon glow, radiate something beyond physical attraction—they exude confidence, charisma, and an undeniable vibrancy. That kind of magic doesn’t come from fleeting encounters; it’s born from a bond where love fuels transformation. Hookups may offer an ego boost, but true connection ignites the soul.

And beyond the honeymoon phase, love has the power to evolve into something even greater. When two people are aligned—moving toward the same vision with honesty, both with each other and within themselves—their union becomes more than just a relationship; it becomes a force. Their energy amplifies, their dreams gain momentum, and together, they create something far bigger than either could alone.

Dishonesty and disrespect are the ultimate disruptors of a Divine Union. While a couple may remain together, the dynamic shifts—what they create together no longer carries the same transformative energy. Those in a true Divine Union understand that when they lie or cheat, they’re not just betraying their partner—they’re betraying themselves. There is no such thing as getting away with anything behind someone’s back when you truly understand that you are one.

My Search for Union

I don’t shop for clothes too often, and here’s why: I’ll scour every rack and every store, but most items just don’t catch my interest. But as soon as I find something I like, I’ll try it on just for fun... and then, without fail, fall in love with it and take it home. This same pattern shows up in my dating life, which is exactly why I don’t date often.

Since that mushroom trip I mentioned earlier, where I felt connected to everyone and everything all at once, something shifted in me fundamentally. Now, I can see the best in everyone and everything, as long as I’m truly looking for it. If I come across as flirtatious, it’s because I am—genuinely—but also because I see the best in the person in front of me and aim to bring that out even more. This approach has gotten me into some trouble in the past, but I’m not apologizing for wanting to reflect the greatness I see in others.

As I get closer to the launch of Creating Opulence, I am not interested in dating in the traditional sense. I'm looking for someone who understands what I'm looking to build and complements it, just as much as I complement what they want to achieve. I'm not just looking for someone to have fun with (though much fun will be had!); I am looking for someone to build with. And I've lived long enough to know that I do not want to suffocate a good connection with the idea of forever. I want to fully commit to that person for as long as it works, and when it stops working, or when we start moving in different directions, I believe I have the maturity to gently let go. I just hope we can complete the missions we set out to complete together before then. 🙏💓

At this point in my life, I’m not searching for just a partner—I’m searching for alignment. A connection that amplifies both of our missions, where we bring out the best in each other, not out of need, but out of deep recognition. Because when two people come together in true harmony, in Divine Union, they don’t just build a life together—they build something greater than themselves.

So whether in love, work, or personal growth, I’m here to create Opulence—not just for myself, but for those who truly see and feel this vision. And if the right person walks this path with me? Even better. But until then, I’ll keep moving forward, knowing that the right connections will come when the time is right.

Well Lovers, sending you all the juicy tantric energy your way to warm you through this winter!

xoxox