Home Coming

Finding Flow & Belonging

There was a time in Toronto when I felt like I was exactly where I needed to be. I would step out the door and, without fail, encounter familiar faces or meet new ones who felt like long-lost friends. The city pulsed with synchronicities—right place, right time, right people. It wasn’t just coincidence; I was in the flow state, and everything unfolded effortlessly. Toronto felt like home.

But now, something has shifted. The energy feels different, or maybe I’ve changed. I still long for that deep sense of belonging, that ease of connection, that magic of being immersed in a place that feels like an extension of myself. Yet, I find myself wondering: is it still in Toronto, or is it somewhere else?

So how do we get back to that feeling of home?

It starts within. Before we can find a place that feels like home in the external world, we need to reconnect with ourselves. When we are in tune with who we are—our values, our purpose, our deepest desires—we naturally gravitate toward the spaces and people that align with us.

We do this by moving with curiosity, allowing ourselves to explore without rigid expectations. When we step outside of our comfort zones, not with fear but with a sense of wonder, we open the door to possibilities we may never have considered. We begin to see life as an unfolding journey rather than a fixed destination.

We also listen to our intuition, that quiet but persistent voice that nudges us toward what feels right. Too often, we silence it in favor of logic, practicality, or societal expectations. But true belonging isn’t something we think our way into—it’s something we feel. The more we trust inner compass, the more effortlessly we align with the people, places, and experiences that nourish our souls.

And perhaps most importantly, we embrace the unexpected. Life has a way of placing us exactly where we need to be, even if the path looks nothing like what we imagined. The magic happens when we surrender to the flow, staying open to the signs, synchronicities, and invitations that appear when we least expect them.

Home isn’t always a fixed location—it’s a feeling, a state of being. And when we are fully present, moving with trust, curiosity, and an open heart, we realize that home has been with us all along.

Go With the Flow

I believe that, throughout history, Mother Earth has been orchestrating the movement of people like chess pieces—sometimes through gentle nudges, other times through dramatic upheavals. These migrations have led to both harmony and conflict, with many being taken advantage of and cultures clashing. Yet, I believe that, in the grand scheme of things, all of this movement is leading to the evolution of our species - we are at a pivotal time in history where our actions now more than ever will decide how we evolve.

A content creator I follow recently said something that resonated deeply with me: from the beginning of time, people have migrated in search of a better life for their families. This struck a chord because my own parents immigrated to Canada years before I was born, sacrificing so much to build a better future for us. For most of my life, I believed that the best way to honour their sacrifices was to build a stable, successful life here—to follow the North American dream.

However, in recent years, I’ve felt a deep pull back to my roots. Growing up in North America has given me a unique perspective, an education, and valuable work experience where I have had the priviledge to connect with people from all walks of life. And rather than using these gifts solely to build a life here, I feel called to see how I can contribute to my parents’ homeland. I want to explore ways to help these countries evolve and thrive—not because they are poor, but because they have been poorly managed.

I believe we are at a turning point where Western knowledge and resources can work in true cooperation with these nations, not as a means of imposing outside systems, but as a way to support and empower local communities to build sustainable prosperity on their own terms. Home is no longer just about where I was raised—it’s about where I feel called to make a difference.

Now, this isn’t to say that I want to leave North America forever and never look back. With the recent vote in Ontario this week, it’s clear that this province—and the country as a whole—needs just as much attention and transformation. I don’t believe in abandoning one home for another without at least trying to make a difference where I am.

For years, I’ve dreamed of creating programs for elementary and high schools that teach kids about real urban sustainability—how to grow food, build ethical and sustainable businesses, and reconnect with nature even in city environments. Food insecurity, in particular, is becoming a growing concern, and I believe we need to start empowering the next generation with real solutions.

Imagine if we invested in greenhouses for every school—not just as a way to grow food, but as living classrooms where kids learn how to cultivate, forage, and prepare their own meals. What if they also gained entrepreneurial skills by organizing farmers’ markets to sell the food they’ve grown? This wouldn’t just address food insecurity—it would create a ripple effect of self-sufficiency, environmental stewardship, and economic empowerment.

I have all these ideas, but I know I’m not in a position—yet—to propose them to the city or province. That’s why I feel called to travel the world, to immerse myself in permaculture practices, and to learn from cultures that have sustained themselves for centuries. By sharing my journey and raising awareness through digital platforms, I hope to gather the knowledge, funding, and community support needed to bring these ideas to life, or at the very least, help inspire others that do have influence over these cities.

Perhaps home is not where we’ve been but where we are. And maybe, just maybe, the next place we find ourselves will bring an even deeper sense of belonging than we ever imagined.

Then we have made it home.